Just...................whatever [5]

azriel wrote:Ha ha, found it, yes, I quoted it from some fooking Naturalist site BUT I didnt say it was preggers ? someone else did before me Bloody frog !

azriel wrote:



stare at the dots on the nose for 30 seconds then look at a piece of  plain white paper & blink a few times

"Human beings are funny. They long to be with the person they love but refuse to admit openly. Some are afraid to show even the slightest sign of affection because of fear. Fear that their feelings may not be recognized, or even worst, returned. But one thing about human beings puzzles me the most is their conscious effort to be connected with the object of their affection even if it kills them slowly within."

— Sigmund Freud

"I always wonder which is more crippling, pain or hope. To be cemented under pain can halt all desire to function. Pain is motivating to some, paralyzing to others, however hope can be equally lethal; you are stuck in an infinite waltz between the hope of finding what you long for and the fear of losing it. That dance makes it impossible to move on, find closure, or even close your eyes for a simple moment."

"J’aurais dû être plus gentile—I should have been more kind. That is something a person will never regret. You will never say to yourself when you are old, Ah, I wish I was not good to that person. You will never think that."

— Khaled Hosseini, And the Mountains Echoed

Bluebottle wrote:I quite liked this.

"J’aurais dû être plus gentile—I should have been more kind. That is something a person will never regret. You will never say to yourself when you are old, Ah, I wish I was not good to that person. You will never think that."

— Khaled Hosseini, And the Mountains Echoed

Pettytyrant101 wrote:It strange how we almost seem scared of being happy. Because getting there requiers one to be open and voulnerable? Because one fears rejection? I don't know.. Why is life so difficult? - Blue

Reminds me of this scene from Who, beautiful writing-



MADGE: Lily and Cyril's father, my husband, is dead and they don't know yet, because if I tell them now, then Christmas will always be what took their father away from them, and no one should have to live like that. Of course, when the Christmas period is over, I shall. I don't know why I keep shouting at them.
DOCTOR: Because very time you see them happy, you remember how sad they're going to be, and it breaks your heart.
LILY [OC]: Mother, come and see!
CYRIL: Mother! You've got to see this!
DOCTOR: Because what's the point in them being happy now if they're going to be sad later.
CYRIL [OC]: Mother.
LILY [OC]: Mother, are you coming?
DOCTOR: The answer is, of course, because they are going to be sad later.

halfwise wrote:

Bluebottle wrote:I quite liked this.

"J’aurais dû être plus gentile—I should have been more kind. That is something a person will never regret. You will never say to yourself when you are old, Ah, I wish I was not good to that person. You will never think that."

— Khaled Hosseini, And the Mountains Echoed

Not true.  There are some assholes in the world who really needed to be told off at some point, and you missed the chance.  They deserved it, the world deserved it, and you flubbed it.  There is regret.

Pettytyrant101 wrote:Everyone deserves to be given the benefit of the doubt. Its like the old Highland Code, you never turn a stranger from your door or being a stranger- you judge them on how they act or what they do. Then if some baw-kicking is required its required.

halfwise wrote:

Not true.  There are some assholes in the world who really needed to be told off at some point, and you missed the chance.  They deserved it, the world deserved it, and you flubbed it.  There is regret.

Bluebottle wrote:Well, there's certainly some truth to that. Although, I'm not sure you do either yourself or anyone any good by being an asshole to assholes.

Also I dislike judging people too harshly on how they act. I don't think people on the whole mean or realize the effect their actions might have on others. And most people are decent people when you get down to it. And people make mistakes, they can act stupidly and come across badly. I certainly do. Assuming the worst doesn't necessarily lead to the best places. I guess that's what I'm trying to get across. If you are generous, kind and friendly that's all you can do anything about, and if more people were like that, the world would be a better place.