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Post by hobbiting Fri Nov 23, 2012 10:46 am

hi all, I have a problem with my other half, and this site, i come on this site all the time for the info on The Hobbit, and the humour that is uploaded also. i love the LOTR films, and i watch them very often, my partner also loves these films so i felt this could be something we could both enjoy. but unfortunately it has turned against me. i am very hooked on this, but do find myself on here more than with my OH. he doesnt show me any affection, he keeps to himself and has no interest in what i am interested in, i really dont know what to do,am i wrong for staying on here as often as i do?
please help my Hobbit friends.

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Post by Pettytyrant101 Fri Nov 23, 2012 11:23 am

Welcome to Forumshire Hobbiting. cheers
But you want releationship adivce, from people on here? Shocked

It is likely to be of the following quality-
Have you tried Buckie? Lots and lots of buckie? It wont help but you will be so oblivious to the problems it will all have fallen apart before you sober up. drunken

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Post by Norc Fri Nov 23, 2012 11:26 am

well... if you've only made two posts, than dear you, you don't have problem.. (i do..) but, you could argue that this is like reading the newspaper for you. and decide before hand how much time you want to spend here. and maybe try not to sit on the computer while ur partner is present.

try to bring it up and come to an arrangement, you both try to look into what the other is interested in. idk... most of my friends aren't as stoked on the hobbit as i am.
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Post by halfwise Fri Nov 23, 2012 2:39 pm

4 posts so far ain't nothing. Whole careers have been wasted here, families sundered, etc etc. Asking us for forumshire relationship problems is like asking drug addicts to cure you of your crack habit.

And Norc can tell you what our relationship advice is: as a fully fledged male I will certify that we are all dumbasses. The men to worry about are the ones who don't realize they are dumbasses. He may not even realize he's being unresponsive. Shocked So come on so strong even a doorknob can see what you're about, and if that doesn't work then it's time to ditch him 'cause he's truly not interested rather than simply oblivious. End of story, move on.

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Post by Mrs Figg Fri Nov 23, 2012 4:13 pm

Shocked Relationship advice? from us? disfunctional Hobbit sniffers? you must be kidding. Drunken Scotshobbits, farmers with rude veggie fetishes, a hairy creature from the bowels of Manhatten, swearing pixies from Ffyordlandia, Essex Alien from the Planet Zargon Bleep, and thats just the sane ones. Talk about Last Place On Earth to ask for help. Very Happy
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Post by halfwise Fri Nov 23, 2012 4:18 pm

That's probably the best nutshell description of forumshire we'll see anywhere. And you still make us sound lovable. cheers

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Post by Eldorion Fri Nov 23, 2012 5:02 pm

I don't know how much time exactly you spend on the Internet (assuming this is a serious question) but from the sounds of it you should spend more time with your partner in real life. Smile
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Post by Pettytyrant101 Fri Nov 23, 2012 5:05 pm

What kind of advice is that Eldo? Mad Sensible advice thats what. Shocked And who comes to Fourmshire for sensible advice?! Evil or Very Mad

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Post by CC12 35 Fri Nov 23, 2012 6:01 pm

talk about missing the point you guys... Rolling Eyes everyone except Eldoarion...well sort of Wink

are you interested in any of his hobbies apart from LOTR? Do something with them. it could be that while he likes the films he doesn't want to discuss it in extreme detail so he feels he doesn't want to spoil the party so to speak. so go out and do something if you want to, even if you can't get him to come along, it could stimulate conversations with your husband. talk to your friends for a fresh perspective that can really really help. The issue could really be anything but just keep talking to him- and don't spend too much time online

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Post by Pettytyrant101 Fri Nov 23, 2012 6:02 pm

My buckie solution is much simpler. Nod

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Post by CC12 35 Fri Nov 23, 2012 6:04 pm

If you count putting off thinking about a solution a solution

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Post by Mrs Figg Fri Nov 23, 2012 6:10 pm

it works for me. I generally leave decades before I decide solutions.
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Post by Pettytyrant101 Fri Nov 23, 2012 6:12 pm

The key is to get more buckie in as soon as you think you might be becoming sober enough to remember why you are getting drunk in the first place. drunken


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Post by CC12 35 Fri Nov 23, 2012 6:12 pm

i'm not giving someone advice to turn to the bottle Mrs Figg Neutral

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Post by Pettytyrant101 Fri Nov 23, 2012 6:14 pm

Noone should turn to the bottle Carly- quite right- one should embrace it! Nod Preferably with a straw.

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Post by CC12 35 Fri Nov 23, 2012 6:18 pm

i thought only women drink with a straw

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Post by Pettytyrant101 Fri Nov 23, 2012 6:22 pm

It increases the drunk potential of a drink- and you can get four or five in your gob at once and be drinking from 5 seperate barrels at the same time cheers - wonderful invention the straw.

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Post by CC12 35 Fri Nov 23, 2012 6:29 pm

You don't see many men drinking through straws here in Harlem but I guess thats because they've all left for the lights

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Post by Pettytyrant101 Fri Nov 23, 2012 6:31 pm

left their buckie! Shocked What sort of a sick place is this Harlem? Mad

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Post by chris63 Fri Nov 23, 2012 6:35 pm

My cat just woke me up. Its 2.30am here and the first thing i do is to look on this site. :carrot: :carrot:
Do i have a problem ?

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Post by Pettytyrant101 Fri Nov 23, 2012 6:37 pm

Perfectly sensible behaviour if you ask me Chris. Very Happy


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Post by azriel Fri Nov 23, 2012 6:41 pm

Mrs Figg: are you saying Im NOT sane!? (bloody well hope so,or Im disappointed in you!)
Petty: why of course one needs to use a straw ! the libation hits the required spot quicker & more effectivly!
Chris: your not the only one here at weird times of the day,enclosed in my Cavern,with the curtains closed,it could be ANY time for me.
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Post by chris63 Fri Nov 23, 2012 6:51 pm

Are we Troglodyte's ?

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Post by Mrs Figg Fri Nov 23, 2012 6:55 pm

well Biffo defo is. Laughing
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Post by chris63 Fri Nov 23, 2012 6:57 pm

lol!

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